Friday, February 27, 2009

Connecting with Our Feelings and Needs

This is a repeat and update of an earlier post.

I read about these killings of young people, by other young people. It surely cannot be natural for children to kill.

We need to find more love in our hearts. Sorry if this sounds airy-fairy. I am talking in purely practical terms. We need to find more love and learn how to express it better or, I fear, our species is not going to survive much longer.

We can find more love. There are methods that work. Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is a highly effective method. I have seen the effect it has had in my own life and I am determined to help make it available as widely as possible, particularly within African Diasporic communities.

We can use NVC to help improve our communication at home, at work, at school, with partners, loved ones, and with ourselves. Nonviolent Communication is very practical and its results are exceptional. It is used by children as young as four. It is used by people all over the world, including places where there is a history of extreme violence, such as Rwanda and Burundi, Sierra Leone, and Israel and Palestine.

Click here to find out more about Creative Communication.

Click here to read about Nonviolent Communication.

See also: How to Get Our Needs Met, NVC vs. Anger Management. These are both old posts, so the links are probably out of date.

Monday, February 16, 2009

Creating Deep and Lasting Change

Do you want to create change at a deep level - to any area of your life - money, career, relationships, health, success?

Maybe you have been working on yourself for a while, using affirmations and visualisations, running your business.

Are you happy with your results?

Are you feeling fed up and frustrated?

You may need to go deeper, to deal with your core conditioning - also known as core programming. Find out what deeply-held beliefs, attitudes and assumptions are getting in your way, and change them.

For more information, read Change Your Life with Core Conditioning.

Success Strategies for Black People contains a very effective method for discovering and changing your core conditioning.

Here's to your success!

Wednesday, February 04, 2009

Allowing Success

How can African American people achieve our goals in 2009? The more we dwell on our successes,the more successful we become. The Law of Attraction says that in order to achieve success, we need to vibrate at the level of success.

To read this article, visit Allowing Success.

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Self-Love: Black Hair and Skin Care

One of the ways we have been taught to hate ourselves is in the area of our hair and skin. We are suffering from a collective inferiority complex. We have a lot of healing to do.

To read more, see The Key to Confidence and Self-Esteem. See also, What They Don't Want Us to Know.

We deserve to love ourselves, appreciate ourselves and value ourselves more and more every day.